NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR SPOUSE, FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

When two people are in love and decide to get married, it’s all the butterflies and lovely lilies, orchids and roses. Little do they imagine that their marriage can take such an ugly turn in life and thing will be so rough that either of them will decide to part his/her ways. 

It is horrible that things are not working in a marriage. You will feel the pain, anguish, remorse, frustration, altogether. 

In such cases, even if you want to be together, you will not be expressing the feeling. As things are too broken in your relation to even think of it happening. This can be very heartbreaking. But is giving up on the love you felt the right thing to do? 

No, we don’t think so. By this time, everyone agrees to the fact that happily ever after is just the concept of movies. There is no such thing in real lives. Relationships in real life are all about two people making things work, which is only possible when two people want to do that. To keep the ego and anger aside in order to sort things out. 

Growth begins within oneself. For a relationship to work two way, both of them will have to realise the lack of efforts from their end. Men often find no fault in them. According to the powerfulman.com, it is how the man is brought up. Caught up so much in their work, often forget the cute little things a perfect relationship, including their wives yearn for. Change begins with oneself. 

Rather than thinking of parting the ways, think of how to fix a broken marriage, and how can you give your best shot in doing all the possible things and putting all the efforts to fix the marriage. 

The best way is to analyse the reasons because of which, your relationship is suffering so badly. We believe the major causes of a broken marriage or relationship, first of all, are the lack of efforts- including laziness, neglection, selfishness, lack of time for your partner, and poor communication or no communication at all. 

The best way by which you can fix a marriage is,

Firstly, taking a good look at you, this includes analysing the mistakes and lack of efforts from your end. Try really hard to get rid of those bad habits and pay proper attention to your partner. Make changes in your lifestyle and keep your loved ones on a priority. 

Secondly, Never try to run from your mistakes, take responsibility for your actions. Since you know now, what did you do to contribute to the issues your marriage is facing now. 

Thirdly, and most Importantly- COMMUNICATE! Ask your partner how they feel, and what can you do in order to fix what you have hurt or broken. Be honest and as this is what your spouse is expecting from you. Try to find a way for how to fix an argument with your wife.

It is never easy to live with stinging guilt that you did nothing to stop your partner from parting their ways and ending what you both started on their own.